Updating CI/CD actions to use release-1.13 of dapr/dapr runtime

[paulyuk]

Description

Updates all CI/CD testing in the release branch to use updated 1.13 RC runtime release.
Needed for testing.

Issue reference

https://github.com/dapr/dapr/actions/runs/7802473423

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Checklist

Please make sure you've completed the relevant tasks for this PR, out of the following list:

• The quickstart code compiles correctly
• You've tested new builds of the quickstart if you changed quickstart code
• You've updated the quickstart's README if necessary
• If you have changed the steps for a quickstart be sure that you have updated the automated validation accordingly. All of our quickstarts have annotations that allow them to be executed automatically as code. For more information see mechanical-markdown. For user guide with examples see Examples.

[msfussell]

LGTM

[paulyuk]

Merging even with breaking tests so we can use test to find and fix regression. I believe the new release caused a timing issue causing dapr stop to fail.