fix: avoid excessive concurrency in row fetch

[SkyFan2002]

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Summary

Use semaphore to limit the concurrency of row fetch to avoid OOM.

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - current tests should cover

Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
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[KKould]

Please update branch to synchronize #17887 to solve ci fail