perf(install): request abbreviated packuments from npm registry

[nathanwhit]

Here's the speedup with a clean cache against an astro starter repo

Benchmark 1: ~/Documents/Code/deno/target/release-lite/deno install
  Time (mean ± σ):      6.535 s ±  0.578 s    [User: 1.417 s, System: 7.037 s]
  Range (min … max):    5.783 s …  7.443 s    10 runs

Benchmark 2: ~/Documents/Code/deno/target/deno-baseline install
  Time (mean ± σ):      8.555 s ±  1.429 s    [User: 2.159 s, System: 6.828 s]
  Range (min … max):    6.736 s … 11.942 s    10 runs

Any package that has a large packument should see a noticeable speedup, since the abbreviated versions tend to be 2-5x smaller.

One complication is that the time field is not present in abbreviated metadata, so if you are using the minimum-dependency-age resolution option, then we have to request the full metadata. Then that full metadata gets written to the fs cache. So basically if you're using minimum-dependency-age you won't see a benefit, which is unfortunate but no good way around it at this point.

Disclosure: the idea and direction came from me, claude did the code changes, but i've reviewed every line in the PR

[bartlomieju]

Closes #16177?

[dsherret]

LGTM

[dsherret]

Closes #16177?

Might still be useful to slim down the larger cache, but probably not worth the complexity or time it takes to do so.