fix: use setops helper for ssl connections

[CrowdHailer]

We were seeing this error in prod. using pog (for gleam bindings) to pgo. pgo was on version 0.17.0.

EROR label=GenStatem(Terminate) name=//erl(<0.1814.0>) reason=Error(FunctionClause, [PrimInet(Setopts, [Sslsocket(//erl(#Port<0.414>), //erl(<0.1817.0>), //erl(<0.1816.0>), GenTcp, TlsGenConnection, //erl(#Ref<0.1647852057.3898474498.41957>), Undefined), [Active(Once)]], []), PgoHandler(FlushUntilReadyForQuery, 2, [File(charlist.from_string("/build/packages/server/build/prod/erlang/pgo/src/pgo_handler.erl")), Line(588)]) 

...etc

I believe this fixes it

[tsloughter]

Oh my! Thank you! I'll get this released now and will get a test added to guard against regression.

[tsloughter]

Release made and test "added". Turns out it would have been caught simply if this existing test ran in the ssl group of tests 02ad1fa

[CrowdHailer]

Glad the test exists, thanks for the quick turn around.