fix: skip orphan databases in EnsureAllMetadata to prevent metadata flip-flop

[dannomayernotabot]

Summary

• When both an orphan database (e.g., "gastown") and its canonical counterpart ("gt") exist in Dolt, EnsureAllMetadata processes both and writes different dolt_database values to the same metadata.json, causing confusing "identity mismatch repair" warnings that flip-flop on every gt up.
• Builds a reverse rig→canonical-DB map and skips databases that share a rig's directory name but aren't the rig's canonical database.
• Includes test covering the exact scenario.

Test plan

• TestEnsureAllMetadata_SkipsOrphanDatabases — new test passes
• All existing TestEnsureAllMetadata* tests pass (5/5)
• gt up no longer shows flip-flop warnings

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[codecov-commenter]

❌ 5 Tests Failed:

Tests completed	Failed	Passed	Skipped
9320	5	9315	48

View the top 3 failed test(s) by shortest run time

github.com/steveyegge/gastown/internal/cmd::TestBuildRefineryPatrolVars_FullConfig

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=== RUN   TestBuildRefineryPatrolVars_FullConfig
    patrol_helpers_test.go:166: expected 5 vars, got 7: [target_branch=main integration_branch_refinery_enabled=true integration_branch_auto_land=false run_tests=true delete_merged_branches=true judgment_enabled=false review_depth=standard]
--- FAIL: TestBuildRefineryPatrolVars_FullConfig (0.00s)

github.com/steveyegge/gastown/internal/cmd::TestRunHooksSyncNonClaudeAgent

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=== RUN   TestRunHooksSyncNonClaudeAgent
Syncing hooks...
  ✓ mayor/.claude/settings.json (created)
  ✓ deacon/.claude/settings.json (created)
  ✓ myrig/crew/.claude/settings.json (created)
warning: role_agents[crew]=opencode - agent "opencode" binary "opencode" not found in PATH, falling back to default

Synced 3 targets (3 created, 0 updated, 0 unchanged)
    hooks_sync_test.go:366: opencode plugin not created in worktree alice
--- FAIL: TestRunHooksSyncNonClaudeAgent (0.01s)

github.com/steveyegge/gastown/internal/doctor::TestHooksSyncCheck_Fix_TemplateAgent

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=== RUN   TestHooksSyncCheck_Fix_TemplateAgent
warning: role_agents[crew]=opencode - agent "opencode" binary "opencode" not found in PATH, falling back to default
    hooks_sync_check_test.go:219: expected StatusWarning before fix, got OK
--- FAIL: TestHooksSyncCheck_Fix_TemplateAgent (0.01s)

github.com/steveyegge/gastown/internal/doctor::TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_Missing

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=== RUN   TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_Missing
warning: role_agents[crew]=opencode - agent "opencode" binary "opencode" not found in PATH, falling back to default
    hooks_sync_check_test.go:193: expected StatusWarning for missing template agent file, got OK: All 3 hook targets in sync
--- FAIL: TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_Missing (0.01s)

github.com/steveyegge/gastown/internal/doctor::TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_OutOfSync

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=== RUN   TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_OutOfSync
warning: role_agents[crew]=opencode - agent "opencode" binary "opencode" not found in PATH, falling back to default
    hooks_sync_check_test.go:172: expected StatusWarning for out-of-sync template agent, got OK: All 3 hook targets in sync
--- FAIL: TestHooksSyncCheck_TemplateAgent_OutOfSync (0.01s)

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[steveyegge]

Superseded by #3287 (fixes the same EnsureAllMetadata oscillation with DB-to-rig grouping) which was merged.