made to pass connection instead of copying store

[sio4]

What is being done in this PR?

• Changed methods of the private interface crudable to pass *Connection instead of store
• This change will enable detailed log printing for SQL level of logs (connection ID, transaction ID, and pool statistics)
• Also addressed deadlock bug reported as bug: DB connection locks up under load calling DB.Create(), regression in 6.1.0 vs 6.0.8 #800

Sample Logs, when a TX is used:

[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:16 sql - BEGIN Transaction --- (conn=tx-5581905573995530030, tx=5581905573995530030)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:16 sql - INSERT INTO "users" ("created_at", "id", "name", "updated_at") VALUES (:created_at, :id, :name, :updated_at) | [{"id":"a1b61ca5-ba24-4ba4-b111-43e1d39e6bd0","name":"Username","created_at":"2022-12-16T23:44:16.653325+09:00","updated_at":"2022-12-16T23:44:16.653325+09:00"}] (conn=tx-5581905573995530030, tx=5581905573995530030)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:16 sql - END Transaction --- (conn=tx-5581905573995530030, tx=5581905573995530030)

[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:09 sql - BEGIN Transaction --- (conn=tx-1750268002579520625, tx=1750268002579520625)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:09 sql - SELECT users.created_at, users.id, users.name, users.updated_at FROM users AS users (conn=tx-1750268002579520625, tx=1750268002579520625)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:44:09 sql - END Transaction --- (conn=tx-1750268002579520625, tx=1750268002579520625)

Sample Logs, when DB pool is used directly while the TX middleware is used:

[POP] 2022/12/16 23:40:50 sql - BEGIN Transaction --- (conn=tx-5119710909779336636, tx=5119710909779336636)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:40:50 sql - INSERT INTO "users" ("created_at", "id", "name", "updated_at") VALUES (:created_at, :id, :name, :updated_at) | [{"id":"859965da-442a-4f9c-92ef-815d9c260329","name":"Username","created_at":"2022-12-16T23:40:50.389328+09:00","updated_at":"2022-12-16T23:40:50.389328+09:00"}] (conn=conn-4630690138082725292, tx=0, maxconn: 3, openconn: 2, in-use: 1, idle: 1)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:40:50 sql - END Transaction --- (conn=tx-5119710909779336636, tx=5119710909779336636)

[POP] 2022/12/16 23:41:21 sql - BEGIN Transaction --- (conn=tx-3170621132153068770, tx=3170621132153068770)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:41:21 sql - SELECT users.created_at, users.id, users.name, users.updated_at FROM users AS users (conn=conn-4630690138082725292, tx=0, maxconn: 3, openconn: 2, in-use: 1, idle: 1)
[POP] 2022/12/16 23:41:21 sql - END Transaction --- (conn=tx-3170621132153068770, tx=3170621132153068770)

What are the main choices made to get to this solution?

• To make logging/(internal)API simple and consistent with others
• (minor) reduce variable copying

List the manual test cases you've covered before sending this PR:

• standard tests
• a quick and simple stress test with an extremely simple application

fixes #800

[paganotoni]

This looks good to me. thanks.