TSDB: Add ForEachShardHash to speed up some sharded queries

[bboreham]

• Needed for Make sharded active-series queries matching everything faster mimir#13491

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Introduce Head.ForEachShardHash to batch-iterate series refs alongside their shard hashes without holding locks during callbacks.

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