Backport of host volumes: -force flag for delete into release/1.10.x

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This PR is auto-generated from #25902 to be assessed for backporting due to the inclusion of the label backport/1.10.x.

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When a node is garbage collected, we leave behind the dynamic host volume in the state store. We generally don't want to automatically garbage collect the volumes and risk data loss (see also #25903), but we should allow these to be removed via the API.

Fixes: #25762
Fixes: https://hashicorp.atlassian.net/browse/NMD-705
Ref: #25903

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