ci(release): update runner os for windows and macos

[RoloEdits]

Updates the releases CI job to the current OS for windows and macos. Starting with macos-14 the macos-latest image is solely ARM. There is a macos-latest-large for x86_64, which this changes for the x86_64 job. Tests are now not skipped, as it was before, bringing all platform to the same state now.

The windows image was changed to windows-latest and the check for when the built artifacts are moved is changed to check the os field for windows-latest rather than the now deprecated windows-2019.

https://github.com/actions/runner-images?tab=readme-ov-file#available-images

A Windows 11 ARM exists, but does not come with Rust like the ubuntu one so leaving for later. Rust on Windows ARM is also only a tier 2 support.
https://github.com/actions/partner-runner-images/blob/main/images/arm-windows-11-image.md
https://doc.rust-lang.org/beta/rustc/platform-support.html#tier-2-with-host-tools

[RoloEdits]

The documentation for Github stuff really does suck. I guess the large runner for the macos means its part of the other offerings they have for Enterprise, even though the way it seems to be presented is just that its the x64 offering for macos, with with xlarge being the higher tier offering instead.

I guess I can just leave it as macos-latest and just trust that when rust cross compiles for x86_64 it will always work?

[the-mikedavis]

Yeah I think we can rely on the --target for x86 on the macos-latest runner