feat: wait channel when buffer full option

[Yisaer]

1. support wait channel when buffer full option
2. revise kafka sink batch configure

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 47.36842% with 20 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

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Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/topo/node/node.go	50.00%	7 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
internal/topo/planner/sink_planner.go	50.00%	5 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
internal/topo/node/sink_node.go	37.50%	4 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

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