websocket reconnection and memory leak cleanup

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okay so websockets weren't reconnecting on failures and channels were leaking memory when cleanup failed. added auto retry with exponential backoff (3 tries by default) and made the cleanup methods more defensive so they don't crash on errors anymore. basically just making this more resilient for long running apps yeah

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okay so websockets weren't reconnecting on failures and channels were leaking memory when cleanup failed. added auto retry with exponential backoff (3 tries by default) and made the cleanup methods more defensive so they don't crash on errors anymore. basically just making this more resilient for long running apps yeah