chore: update tonic to 0.13

[gruebel]

Fixes #2873

Changes

• the git submodule was already updated to v1.5.0, but the config didn't reflect it

Merge requirement checklist

• CONTRIBUTING guidelines followed
• Unit tests added/updated (if applicable)
• Appropriate CHANGELOG.md files updated for non-trivial, user-facing changes
• Changes in public API reviewed (if applicable)

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 80.8%. Comparing base (a071d8f) to head (c5d6bc6).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   80.8%   80.8%           
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  Files        124     124           
  Lines      23833   23833           
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  Hits       19280   19280           
  Misses      4553    4553           

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[cijothomas]

thanks!