Fix crash when dispose() arrives before connection initialization

.release-notes/fix-crash-dispose-before-initialization.md

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+## Fix crash when dispose() arrives before connection initialization
+
+Fixed a crash that could occur when `dispose()` was called on a connection actor before its internal initialization completed. The race between initialization and disposal is unlikely but was observed on macOS arm64 CI.

CLAUDE.md

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 Package: `stallion` (repo name is `stallion`, Pony package name is `stallion`)
 
-Built on lori (v0.12.0). Lori provides raw TCP I/O with a connection-actor model: `_on_received(data: Array[U8] iso)` for incoming data, `TCPConnection.send(data): (SendToken | SendError)` for outgoing, plus backpressure notifications, SSL support, per-connection ASIO-level idle timers, and general-purpose one-shot timers.
+Built on lori (v0.13.0). Lori provides raw TCP I/O with a connection-actor model: `_on_received(data: Array[U8] iso)` for incoming data, `TCPConnection.send(data): (SendToken | SendError)` for outgoing, plus backpressure notifications, SSL support, per-connection ASIO-level idle timers, and general-purpose one-shot timers.
 
 ### Key design decisions
 

corral.json

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   "deps": [
     {
       "locator": "github.com/ponylang/lori.git",
-      "version": "0.12.0"
+      "version": "0.13.0"
     },
     {
       "locator": "github.com/ponylang/ssl.git",