feat: 2D config preset table

[tlambert03]

proof of principle of the 2D table that @marktsuchida was describing in #307 (comment)

would still need:

• ability to add a new row (a new dev/prop that all presets should set)
• ability to add/remove columns (to add/remove presets)
• editable column headers (to rename a preset)
• deal with jagged config groups (where not all presets have the same dev/props)

[codecov]

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Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 177 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 89.01%. Comparing base (1cda2b7) to head (92fb2f8).
Report is 48 commits behind head on main.

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src/pymmcore_widgets/_config_preset_table.py	0.00%	177 Missing ⚠️

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