feat: connector supports version matching detection

[menshibin]

Description

1. Node.js connector supports version matching detection.
2. Solved the issue of the system being unable to exit in abnormal situations.
3. Organize and improve dependencies.

Jira: https://jira.taosdata.com:18080/browse/TD-35125

Checklist

Please check the items in the checklist if applicable.

• Is the user manual updated?
• Are the test cases passed and automated?
• Is there no significant decrease in test coverage?

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 79.65%. Comparing base (c06e1d8) to head (39b2ad9).
⚠️ Report is 8 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main      #81      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage   79.39%   79.65%   +0.26%     
==========================================
  Files          24       24              
  Lines        1752     1819      +67     
  Branches      239      251      +12     
==========================================
+ Hits         1391     1449      +58     
- Misses        278      284       +6     
- Partials       83       86       +3     

☔ View full report in Codecov by Sentry.
📢 Have feedback on the report? Share it here.

🚀 New features to boost your workflow:

• ❄️ Test Analytics: Detect flaky tests, report on failures, and find test suite problems.
• 📦 JS Bundle Analysis: Save yourself from yourself by tracking and limiting bundle sizes in JS merges.