fix(cloud): defer meta report and align timer with time sync

[shiliu-yang]

Report device meta after time sync via delayed work; publish EVENT_DEVICE_META_REPORT for timer init. Publish TIME_SYNC earlier in OTA upgrade flow. TLS: use 4096 max fragment when ENABLE_MBEDTLS_SSL_MAX_CONTENT_LEN is set. Bump ESP32 platform ref; ESP32 board and switch_demo Kconfig; ignore .clangd.

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