fix: force reset on open when client updates filter after setting it null

[ugur-vaadin]

Description

Adds a flag that force resets the communicator when reopened. This addresses the edge cases where an item is selected while a filter is present, and then the overlay is closed while still in loading state.

Fixes #8235

Type of change

• Bugfix
• Feature

Checklist

• I have read the contribution guide: https://vaadin.com/docs/latest/contributing/overview
• I have added a description following the guideline.
• The issue is created in the corresponding repository and I have referenced it.
• I have added tests to ensure my change is effective and works as intended.
• New and existing tests are passing locally with my change.
• I have performed self-review and corrected misspellings.

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate failed

Failed conditions
C Reliability Rating on New Code (required ≥ A)

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