Replace hack/krtequals with standalone krtequals module

.custom-gcl.yml

@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ version: v2.7.1
 name: golangci-lint-custom
 destination: _output
 plugins:
-- module: github.com/kgateway-dev/kgateway/v2/hack/krtequals
-  path: ./hack/krtequals
+- module: github.com/kgateway-dev/krtequals
+  version: 'v0.0.0-20251210234050-024ef4e99e5c'
 - module: 'sigs.k8s.io/kube-api-linter'
   version: 'v0.0.0-20250715075424-4fab82d26a8e' # Pin to a commit while there's no tag

.golangci.yaml

@@ -40,6 +40,7 @@ linters:
         description: Checks Equals() implementations for KRT-style semantic equality issues
         settings:
           deepEqual: false
+          checkUnexported: false # TODO: enable this. there's several violations that need to be fixed.
       kubeapilinter:
         type: module
         description: Kube API Linter lints Kube like APIs based on API conventions and best practices

Makefile

@@ -121,7 +121,6 @@ mod-download:  ## Download the dependencies
 .PHONY: mod-tidy-nested
 mod-tidy-nested:  ## Tidy go mod files in nested modules
 	@echo "Tidying hack/utils/applier..." && cd hack/utils/applier && go mod tidy
-	@echo "Tidying hack/krtequals..." && cd hack/krtequals && go mod tidy
 
 .PHONY: mod-tidy
 mod-tidy: mod-download mod-tidy-nested ## Tidy the go mod file