feat: add a hole punching protocol try use on nat traversal

[driftluo]

What problem does this PR solve?

close #4824 #4766

This PR introduces a protocol to coordinate node connection behavior, attempting to perform TCP traversal through coordination:

1. Removed the try dial observe address behavior.
2. The protocol currently does not support the wasm target and does not support establishing WebSocket protocol connections.
3. The protocol has only three messages, with the following behavior:
   1. Schedule finding peer IDs from the peer store that want to establish a connection and broadcasting their possible listening addresses.
   2. The node receives a Request message and determines if the target object is itself.
      1. If the to object is itself, it returns a Delivered message.
      2. If the to object is not itself, it broadcasts the route and ttl modified.
   3. The node receives a Delivered message response.
      1. If the from object is itself, it starts a TCP connection request and responds with a Sync message
      2. If the from object is not itself, it modifies the route and ttl and propagates the message to the next router object.
   4. The node receives a Sync message response.
      1. If the to object is itself, it starts a TCP connection request.
      2. If the to object is not itself, it propagates the message to the next router object.

sequenceDiagram
    participant A as Initiator Node A
    participant B as Relay Node B
    participant C as Target Node C

    autonumber

    A->>B: ConnectionRequest
    B->>C: Forward(ConnectionRequest)
    activate C
    C-->>C: Validate Target
    C->>B: ConnectionRequestDelivered (incl. Observed Addr)
    deactivate C
    B->>A: Forward(ConnectionRequestDelivered)
    activate A
    A-->>A: Process Reply (Store Observed Addr)
    Note right of A: Delay start early NAT<br/>traversal attempt here (ttl/2)
    A->>B: ConnectionSync
    deactivate A
    B->>C: Forward(ConnectionSync)

    par Start NAT Traversal & Direct Connection Attempt
        activate A
        A-->>A: Start NAT Traversal
        A-->>C: Direct Connection Attempt (e.g., TCP Hole Punching)
        deactivate A
    and
        activate C
        C-->>C: Start NAT Traversal
        C-->>A: Direct Connection Attempt (e.g., TCP Hole Punching)
        deactivate C
    end

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